Showing posts with label Bonnie. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Bonnie. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 5, 2023

D is for the Dreaded D position


Have you read my previous post, C is for Crying and Corner and not the Cane ?? If not, head over there. I think C is for Crying is my best flash fiction so far.

When it comes to spanking, D is a loaded letter. Originally I was planning to write this post as "D is for Doms and DD and Dreaded D position" but then I thought, no, I'm not going to tackle all that in one post, it's ridiculous.

I would rather direct you to the experts on the matter. For all things D/s (Dominance and submission) and DD (Domestic Discipline), my go-to site is Amy Submits. She covers extensively vanilla-to-D/s and new-to-D/s. Lots of articles, personal stories, anecdotes, can browse by tags. Amy answers questions in Asks.

Cherished property is another expert on D/s. I just love her writing, well written, both educational and highly personal.

So, now we are down to:

D is for the Dreaded D position

For a full tutorial, head to Bonnie's Top 20 Spanking Positions.

For those of you in the know, obviously D stands for Diaper. A little while ago, Jean Marie (of Butt Stuff, temporarily offline) and I unilaterally decided NOT to call it that but instead use a more appropriate term. So I came up with Legs up!

D position, or Legs up!, resembles very much the one in the picture: flat on her back with legs up,  but usually the face expression is the one of a dread, not surprise. 

Why? For a few reasons:

It's considered one of the most humiliating positions, because it's childish and more importantly, 

A full eye contact and nowhere to escape from it. Most other positions do not have spanker and spankee facing each other. Staring at the carpet is a part of the lore. 

Even more humiliating if the spanker holds the legs up in the air by the ankles. 

It's one of the most painful positions, because the skin is stretched super taut and everything is fully exposed, all the bits.

Decidedly the most hated position among all spankees, no poll needed.

But hey, it doesn't mean that Legs up! can't be used for fun for all the same reasons: eye contact, legs held up in the air, lying comfortably on the back.

Sore is More here proudly presents a snippet from its own story Legs up! 

Note: Izzie and Nick are in the middle of a roleplay as Muriel the Mermaid and Flynn the Fisherman. Don't forget that Izzie is pregnant, so it's quite a comfortable position for her. I was recently specifically told NOT to Google "pregnant mermaid", apparently it's a thing. Also, I don't usually write in first person, it's so much fun.

“No, no, Muriel. If it’s for me to decide, we’re doing it my way. I want to see your face.” He tips me on my back, wraps one arm around my knees, so conveniently trapped in the tail, and drags me to the edge of the bed. “Legs up! I mean, tail up.”

Glittering tail up in the air, I grin. My bottom, he’s so desperate to get or more like, not to get access to, is still inside the mermaid’s costume with the zipper securely guarded under my back. Quick push to lay me on my side and a tumble with a zipper, he yanks it open down to my knees, like a jar of sardines, folding the fabric back, all my flesh freed up. The tiny bikini in matching colour, only another layer to peel off, Nick is never the one to hesitate. 

I’m burning with anticipation, what cool air, a cold shower won’t cool me down. Nick pulls me further over the edge of the bed, so my bum is all out in the open, not dangling, but ready for his assault, as he puts the tail with my ankles in it on his shoulder. No, not Nick, it's Flynn the Fisherman, my hero, my lover, my protector. I shut my eyes and hold my breath. Action!


Psst! Admit it, you did like the manhandling part, didn't you?

Four letters down, 22 to go!

 

Monday, April 3, 2023

B is for Bonnie and Belt and Blogs and Bratting

Ouch! I just realized that the A to Z challenge is for ALL blogs, not just spanko blogs. So, I might get here visitors that have no idea what is this all about. What do I do, change the style, change the theme?

Noooo! The show must go on. I might provide more links for vanilla visitors.

B is for Bonnie (as in My Bottom Smarts)

Because every journey starts with Bonnie. Bonnie started blogging in 2005 and since then has been a godmother for too many blogs throughout the spanko blogosphere. I discovered Bonnie's blog only a few months before she retired (hopefully temporarily, and she will come back to blogging), and around the Love Our Lurkers day, that's end of November. I registered my blog, wrote a heartfelt letter to Bonnie, the very first post on my blog, and wrote a poem dedicated to her called A Bottom Song, which I'm still very fond of.

If you don't know that yet, Bonnie is an expert on all things spanking. Adult consensual spanking, that is, that's the only kind we talk about here, no matter how harsh it seems at times. 

MBS (short for My Bottom Smarts) is linked on virtually every blog throughout the blogosphere, and boy, did I stay in this impossible vast, skillfully crafted, generously shared Body of Knowledge. The tutorials alone, I read at least twice each and most, many times over: the elusive why (my favourite), how to talk to your partner, first spanking, fantasy vs reality, bratting, anticipation, letting go (a gem), implements, rituals, more rituals. When in doubt, read Bonnie's tutorial.

Her site is searchable, so dive in, you will find answers to all your questions. 


B is for Belt

Belt plays a prominent part in so many spanking stories and spanking recollections. But I think the best I ever read was on Enzo's Everyday Spankings. It's usually the removing the belt usually gets all the attention, not putting it back. But not in Enzo's story:

removing the belt:

I explain as I undo the metal buckle and pull off my belt in a single tug. The swish of leather dominates the room. I gather the black cowhide in my hands, turn it once upon itself and snap it with a loud crack to emphasize my statement.

and putting it back after the spanking:

The punisher retreats victorious, guided slowly, weaving in and around before I secure it in place behind temporary bars until it is called upon again.

Brilliant, isn't it?

As a mini-challenge I wrote an Ode to Belt without mentioning the word. Here is a small snippet from the poem Thick Brown Leather:

Of all the things that turn me on
The doubled over all-time winner
Thick brown leather, thanks a ton
Turns us into eternal sinners

If you like to browse the tag cloud on the right, you will see that the Belt tag takes a prominent place there, as it takes appearance in almost every one of my spanking stories. 

Here is a snippet from A Proper Young Lady Shall Never:

“A proper young lady–” he scoffs and withdraws with a growl.

“Shut up,” she cries out at a sudden loss, sensing some further scolding, and then blushes at her own outburst, and he lets it slide for a quick moment.

“– shall never call the gentleman’s cock a dick”, he finishes in his lilted accent, as he puts his cock securely away, behind the buttoned fly of his low-rise jeans. Deliberately slow, inch by inch, he pulls the belt out through the loops, with the holy sound that makes her squirm and rejoice all at once into a full body shudder. A triumphant grin that stretches her lips morphs into a hesitant frown, when she sees him folding the belt in half. With his eyebrow raised in a silent question and an outstretched hand, he waits for her to rise on her feet and put her hand in his, and that’s the only confirmation he needs. 

Taken in hand, the hand that puts her on the right side of the slash, she follows. He leads.

The swift shift in the mood is so palpable; his eyes, kind and playful a few minutes ago, now are flooded with hurt and disappointment. 


B is for Blogs

Blogging is a huge part of the spanko community. Whether on Blogger, WordPress, or Tumblr we support each other with blog rolls or lists of blogs we visit. Thank you, my fellow bloggers! I'm so honoured to be included on your lists!


B is for Bratting

Bratting is exactly what it sounds like, behaving like a spoiled brat, but with an important difference. Bratting essentially exists for the sole purpose of asking for a spanking without asking. And while a playful light bratting by a sub/spankee is usually acceptable, even encouraged, the manipulative kind of bratting is frown upon and even worse, it's considered to take away consent from the Dom/spanker.

As always, Bonnie has a whole tutorial on Bratting. My favourite reason not to brat, from her article, is:  "Why would you enrage a man with a paddle?" Really, why? 


Yay, two letters down, 24 more to go!


Monday, February 6, 2023

Bonnie's Corner

 

Limerick #6 - Corner time (originally written for Hermione's brunch)


Corner time is a heavy affair

Sighs, regrets, pouts, hiccups to  spare

With red bum on display

It's the price one must pay

For the pleasure of poking the bear


Bonnie: It's hard to rhyme my name.

Me: Hold my beer...


Limericks #7 and #8 - For Bonnie


Of things that will teach you our Bonnie

None can be described as baloney

Legs up, OTK, 

Hold tight, no escape,

Paddled, belted, and caned, plump or bony


Tutorials, stories, or brunches

No dungeons, no punches or munches

Whether spanko or not

You will end up hot

With smart bottom and panties in bunches 


To read all Limericks click here.


Sunday, January 1, 2023

Let's start it with a BANG

Happy New Year, everyone! Let's start it with a BANG. 

Our dear Bonnie put together  the most comprehensive list of 100 ways to say spanking without mentioning the word, posted here by lovely Hermione here: Let me count the ways

And I just loved it, and then felt that I do have a few additions, some are the play on oldies, others are completely made up by yours truly. 

Full disclosure, no bums, kittens, or feelings were harmed in the production of this list. Please keep in mind, that it's complimentary to Bonnie's list. And I will keep coming back to it with additions. 

Very NEW additions:
    Bum-mer 

Before:
    Sent to cut the switches
    Lowered my panties
    Pulled down the panties
    Bit my lip
    Felt breeze on the bare
    Yanked her pants down NEW
    Had it coming NEW
    Got his undivided attention NEW

During:
    Made things right NEW
    Right the wrong NEW
    Set the record straight NEW
    Had a talk
    Learned my lesson
    Drove the message home
    Gave a piece of mind
    Made sorrier
    Got the six of the best
    Counted my blessings
    Belted
    Brought down the belt
    Paddle, punctuated
    These slippers aren't made for walking
    Solo with the hairbrush
    Ping-pong for one
    A date with Citizen Cane
    A taste of leather
    Weeping with willow
    Dressing-down
    Thrashing 
    Meted out justice
    Laid down the law
    Played the backside bongos
    
    Straightened up NEW
    Undressed and addressed NEW
    Bit the biscuit/pillow/bullet NEW
    Served with a wooden spoon NEW
    Reined in and rained on NEW
    Mastered and commanded NEW
    Called the shots and shouts NEW
    Tend and attend NEW
    Run the backside show NEW
    Curtly Corrected NEW
    Settled a scorching score NEW
    Kept calm and carried on NEW and my new favourite!

After:
    A very sorry girl
    Hot red in the corner
    Rub that bum
    In need of aloe gel
    Put back that belt
    Fainting fingerprints NEW
    Lasting lashes NEW

After after:
    Sleep on my tummy
    Sit on the pillow
    Chairs are hard
    ...but his hand is harder
    Eat while standing
    Can't sit for a week

Location location location:
    Took a trip to the couch
    Grabbed those ankles
    Bent over easy
    Benched
    Diapered
    Tied and tried
    Bent and bound
    Knelt and dealt

Colour:
    Painted red
    Earned my stripes
    Blushed those cheeks
    Marks of the beast
    Reddened rear
    Fifty shades of crimson

Purpose:
    Attended TEA party (TEA=The Establishing Authority)
    Showed who's the boss  
    Taken down a notch
    Changed that tone
    Grounded
    Stress decompressed
    Doled out discipline
    Maintenance day
    Brat busted
    When bratting worked
    Thoroughly scolded
    A lesson to remember
    Young lady's special
    No swearing zone
    Better than the soap
    Fun with the buns
    Good girl tanning

Feels:
    Taken care of 
    Tough loved
    Cleaned the slate
    Silent and surrendered
    Sore but forgiven
    Peace restored

Which one is your favourite?

Tuesday, November 22, 2022

Dear Bonnie

Dear Bonnie,

what a sad day to de-lurk... what they all said and much more. My journey is quite different. I wish I would discover your blog 15 years ago and not this summer.

Full disclosure, I'm vanilla, although as I learned now, so many little quirks count as kinks. For that matter, what really constitutes a spanking? A smack or two do not count, right? What about three or five? Where to draw the line, or better not to? So, I was writing a novel, quite steamy but vanilla, and one summer day, I wrote a scene that involved a spanking that went horribly wrong (they didn't know about Bonnie's writings), wrote it without any research, purely on emotions. And then, to justify what happened and why, plunged into research. BTW, I was right, I described bratting and topping from the bottom without knowing what it is.

MBS was the second spanko blog I found, right after an extreme CDD one. Thankfully, MBS is linked on virtually every blog throughout the blogosphere, and boy, did I stay in this impossible vast, skillfully crafted, generously shared Body of Knowledge. The tutorials alone, I read at least twice each and most, many times over: the elusive why (my favourite), how to talk to your partner, first spanking, fantasy vs reality, bratting, anticipation, letting go (a gem), implements, rituals, more rituals. When in doubt, read Bonnie's tutorial.

I'm still vanilla, leaving vicariously through my characters, following their ebbs and flows, letting them make mistakes, but knowing one thing for sure, I want them to become more like Bonnie and Randy, be themselves, find the way that works for them, because every couple is different, and forget the labels.

There is no sadder day for a lurker and purveyor of fine blogs to find a blog (or forum) written by a brilliant author, smart, intelligent, bold, and sincere, only to discover that the blog is discontinued (not to say dead). A word of advice for those who like me just read, do comment, drop a few words, ask for an advice before it's too late.

Bonnie, I have a parting gift for you, a song/poem called A Bottom Song Since I didn't know how to send it to you, I registered a blog today and posted it there, for Bonnie who redefined the word Bottom.

Becca